I'm going to respectfully disagree here and say there isn't only one kind of Medium style writer. I've just discovered your writing but I like it. I'm not a big one for subtitles and bullet points but I'm slowly my way way up the page views and payments. Be yourself, write passionately and well, read and comment widely, and be patient and you will find readers over time. Most people who try to mold themselves into Medium style fail.