InPink Hair & PronounsbyMary DeVriesFacing Death Together As a Family When You Disagree on PoliticsRBG, my Trump loving brother, and my trans daughterOct 22, 202431Oct 22, 202431
InGrowing GriefbyMary DeVriesBig Brothers Leave Big Holes BehindBrothers aren’t supposed to die in the prime of lifeJan 7, 202220Jan 7, 202220
InGrowing GriefbyMary DeVriesGathering At My Brother’s DeathbedBeing present at the end of a life is painful but a gift.Nov 9, 20209Nov 9, 20209
InGrowing GriefbyMary DeVriesA Tale of Two Hospices Deaths at HomeI was there when my dad died and later when my brother diedNov 23, 2020Nov 23, 2020
InGrowing GriefbyMary DeVriesThe Equations of Grief: How Much is Reasonable and Who Deserves to Grieve?You don’t have to be close to someone for their death to hit you hard. Grief is cumulative.Jan 10, 20217Jan 10, 20217
InGrowing GriefbyMary DeVriesGo Ahead and Yell at God Whether You Believe in a Higher Power or NotRailing at the heavens is catharticJul 19, 20213Jul 19, 20213
InGrowing GriefbyMary DeVriesReflections on My Dad’s DeathThe years pass but the memories linger.Nov 30, 20201Nov 30, 20201
InGrowing GriefbyMary DeVriesI Write Because My Brother DiedThanks, Tim, for the inspirationMar 31, 20212Mar 31, 20212
InThe Personal EssayistbyMary DeVriesRefrigerator Repair 101: Don’t Try This at Home.The last project my dying Dad and I tackled together was refrigerator repair.Oct 28, 2020Oct 28, 2020