My husband and I had a debate the first time I was pregnant. He wanted to wait until after the first trimester to tell everyone "in case we have a miscarriage." I replied, "If I have a miscarriage I will be a basket case and I will want everyone to know the reason why." I didn't experience miscarriage and I'm sorry for your loss. Thanks for sharing your experience and speaking up about this. It's important to tell our stories.