Thank you. I never saw the reply you reference which is probably for the best. I was on an international flight yesterday when this went live. Thank you for your thoughful good faith response.

I especially like this "Parents are generally well informed. It’s not a snap judgment and not up to only the parents."

Things move so much slower and with a lot of roadblocks and soul searching. Nobody is rushing into any medical and usually not even into things like haircuts and clothing changes.