Thanks for your compliments and your thoughts. I like your title suggestion. Much better than mine. We all try to avoid grief whenever we can which is why the past year is such a challenge for us. I think I should totally rewrite this piece based on all the good input I’ve gotten but I’ll need to be in the right frame of mind to do it.

That’s also the problem with gaining readers. They need to be in the right frame of mind to read it so it is unlikely to ever go big. Which is fine. If I make a difference to one grieving person it was worth writing, and I’ve already done that.