Ummm, no to being totally past the night sweats at least in my case. Once they leave for college you can lie awake worrying about how they are doing. But, and it's a huge but, once you do fall asleep no one wakes you at the crack of dawn. It is a wonderful, wonderful thing. And, if the rest of your life allows you can nap whenever you want without a child waking you up or needing attention. Life is good.